RELATIONSHIP ISSUES
It’s important to distinguish between relationship support and strain.
Some of the most important relationships in one’s life can include: romantic partners, family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, health and wellness providers, and fellow peers who are involved in similar activities or organizations. Both positive and negative social exchanges exist in connections with others.
Below is a table that distinguishes the differences between relationship support and strain:
Relationship Support
Involves empowering, or healthy, exchanges within one’s network.
Relationship Strain
Involves disempowering, or problematic, exchanges within one’s network.
- Successful support efforts
- Positive emotions (such as feeling cared for, connected, and understood)
- Motivation to maintain the relationship/network and strengthen it
- Failed support efforts
- Distress (such as stress, irritation, sadness, loneliness, and resentment)
- Uncertainty about whether to stay in the relationship/network or leave it due to unreliability
- Emotional support – for example, receiving understanding, encouragement, and compassion
- Instrumental support, or practical help – for example, receiving a helping hand to completing tasks or address life stressors
- Informational support – for example, receiving guidance, advice, information, or coaching/mentoring
- Lack of effective communication
- Struggles with vulnerability, intimacy, or power
- Significant disappointments, traumas, or betrayals
- Lack of trust, respect, or unity
- Pressures related to relationships with in-laws, parenting, finances, or culture
- Incompatibility, growing apart, or boredom
* It is important to note that for some individuals, depending on social support can be experienced as harmful. For example, it can contribute to guilt, anxiety, and feeling like a burden.
Healthy, supportive relationships are vital for wellness.
Connections come in many forms, each with its own set of benefits. Participation in various social relationships, also referred to as social integration, promotes psychological and health wellness.
Psychological benefits of healthy relationships:
- Fosters resiliency to stress
- Reduces the risk for developing mental illness
- Improved motivation
- Reduced emotional distress
Health benefits of healthy relationships:
- Promotion of healthy lifestyle behaviors
- Fewer stress-related health problems
- Improved recovery from illness
- Living longer (longevity)
Create and transform your relationships for the better.
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